“Showing a great amount of skin when you dress up isn’t the way to find your prince charming. Prince charming likes his gifts wrapped!”
I write this article, not because ‘m an old fashioned girl, not because ‘m a village girl, and not because I don’t approve modernisation or development. I write this coz I wish to preserve what is left of a girl’s dignity, her identity. I tell this beforehand cos I know many of u guyz and girls out there would think of me as an old fashioned dumb girl after reading this.
What do girls wear today? Many might wont disagree with me when I say “virtually nothing”. I don’t know why ..Do they do it out of their own interest or is it because they are made to dress that way? I’d say girls are being used these days..in every manner, in every field. Be it cinema, sports,circus, advertisement…it’s the same story for women. Take cinema for instance, I mean how many item numbers have you seen with a male actor in it? Can u guys even imagine a “Chikni Chameli” or “Munni Badnam Hui” without the female lead in it.??Awkard huh?? Take sports…u never see Virat Kohli or Lionel Messi or Roger Federer revealing too much of their skin for a photoshoot..do u? But is that the case with women?? I don’t think so..So the answer is clear, V are being used.. Knowing this why do we have to play along with it? I’ve never understood what a bikini clad girl is doing in the advertisement for a gent’s perfume. Even advertisemens for the smallest thing such as a cockroach poison has got sexy girls in it? But why?
Girls, remember this. U don’t have to “reveal” to look “beautiful” or to look “sexy”. Just be yourself! Your body is definitely not something that is to be on display.. God created us different from men..v’ve got the right, a duty to preserve it.. So don’t make fashion “own” you.. Remember to wear a dress that is tight enough to show you are a ‘woman’ but also loose enough to show you are a ‘lady’. I know that for us, girls… playing ‘dress up’ starts at the age of 5!! But next time you go shopping take care to shop a dress that will not spoil your identity. Cos by doing this you are saving a group called “women”!
DISCLAIMER – True story saturday ,february 9; 19:00 hours Scene - Me casually scrolling through facebook Suddenly – Ping! An ad pops out It is from an online shopping fashion website. On my screen is Read more…